I intend to meet a sister for marriage with both our mothers present. Her father is ill and unaware. Her mother plans to tell him once we think we may be compatible. I feel uneasy meeting before he knows. Would you advise me to go ahead or wait until he is informed?

Ustadh AbdulAziz al-Haqqan

You can meet her in sha'a Allah. I do not have all the details as to why her father is not involved, and if you sre uneasy about it wait until he gets better.