‎السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته Ustadh Is it wrong for me to avoid islamic discussions when i go to family gatherings unless they’re imaan boosting? Some people want to debate and have deep discussions but this can harm the gathering and potentially may not be invited back

Ustadh AbdulAziz al-Haqqan

You decide what is wise and you see what is of actual benefit because we don't argue for the sake of arguments only. That is the key, and we avoid it.