السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته Ustadh, there happened something in my family in the past which I am not aware of, due to this I am sadly not really connected with my father side. I can’t ask my parents about the past and they don’t really let me connect with family. What should I do?

Ustadh AbdulAziz al-Haqqan

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