What is about ignoring waswas when you fall in a sin again and again and while this sin you always see kufr and you feel that you love this and so on and when you try to hate it you fail for hours so you think khalas because of the sin i got punished with kufr is this waswas or not what should I do?

Advice to the brothers who suffer from waswas: Don't you get tired of asking the same questions over and over again hundreds of times, only to get the same answer hundreds of times over? It is not kufr. You just need to ignore these thoughts, and that is how they go away. Even if you ask anyone from the people of ilm they will always give you the same answer. Shouldn't that be enough, insha'Allah, for you to start really ignoring these thoughts and move on? Rather than repeating the same question hundreds of times and getting the same outcome—which only fuels the waswas—you should deal with the problem by moving forward.