Assalamu Aleykom Ustadh, my husband does not like my parents and also not his own. because he is obligated towards his parents, he contacts them. try to convince him to be nicer to them, but he does not listen. He will only do the minimum what islam obligates him. He also forbade me to advice him.

Ustadh AbdulAziz al-Haqqan

You are not responsible for his shortcomings, and if he forbade you from advising maybe because you did it too often; I am saying maybe because I don't know. Have someone he normally listens to advise him from time to time maybe that will affect him.