Marriage mediation led to cursing and pushing from both side, between my father and husband.My husband does not forgive my father,while my father acts normally after. Based on the hadith about the sahaba who killed his uncle and did who he did not forgive. He hurts me how he treats him.

Imam Ibn Uthaymin said pardoning is better where it brings about reform, because Allah made that a condition, and Ibn Hajar noted a man may naturally dislike the one who harmed his relative, but boycotting beyond three nights is not allowed and the better of the two is the one who greets first (agreed upon).