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about 2 months ago

As-salamu alaykum. I’m 15 and deeply like a Muslim girl my age. We’ve talked about Islam and are friendly. When she’s at school, I feel happy, but sometimes when she isn’t, I feel down and worry if she’s okay. I think about her a lot and want to marry her someday, but I’m young. What do I do?

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Ustadh AbdulAziz al-Haqqan

Imam Ibn Baz was asked this by a boy in nearly your situation and said, this is a great danger, do not meet her and do not speak with her, and if you are able to marry (when you both are of legal age) then ask for her from her wali, and if she becomes your wife, then all praise is for Allah, and if not then Allah will give you better than her. Until then fast, lower your gaze, keep to the Quran and righteous company, and ask Allah for what is good and right for you.

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