aslamo alaykom ustadh, can i say that i dont want polygyny i am a woman and getting to know someone i just find it a hard subject and i dont want him to take another wife. jazaka allahu ghairan

Ustadh AbdulAziz al-Haqqan

I highly advise my sisters to encourage this rather than oppose it for the sake of Allah and intending what is with Him subhanahu wa ta'ala.