السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته If a husband says to wife, if you don’t do this then i will divorce. And she listens and does do it. Does this count as a talaq or its nullified sinces she listened. Or vis versa with commanding not doing something and she listens and doesnt do it.

Ustadh AbdulAziz al-Haqqan

She listened, she didn't disobey, and she shouldn't lead her husband to say such things, she must be obedient in the first place.