السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته أحسن الله إليكم I'm reverted and my family stores alcohol and pork in the fridge, how do I deal with this?

Deal with it with wisdom, and keep your focus on the greater goal, calling your family to Islam without pushing them away. For yourself, prepare and eat your food separately from the forbidden things. If you happen to touch the pork or alcohol or its traces, that does not break your wudu, you simply wash your hands. Be gentle with them so the door of dawah stays open, in shā' Allah.