أحسن الله إليكم Please excuse me for the explicity of this question. 1) If a woman desires marriage but is scared of intimacy because she read that it could be painful depending on the man, should she still get married? 2) Is it haram for a husband to cause pain to his wife during intimacy?

Ustadh AbdulAziz al-Haqqan

Do not exaggerate may Allah reward you, the vast majority of women are married and are fine.