fearing falling into sin and cut the ties of kinship. the non mahrams in my family dont observe the proper hijab so i avoid places where they r even though other family are there and i want to greet them, i also dont greet them directly im very shy and stay away from there presence. is this wrong?

Ustadh AbdulAziz al-Haqqan

You should stay away from mixed gatherings. You can always give salam through the phone, private visitations, or other means.