أحسن الله إليك, if a man is not allowed to mourn his relatives, does that mean he is not allowed to feel sad when they die? ‏جزاك الله خيرًا و ‏بارك الله فيك

Ustadh AbdulAziz al-Haqqan

No no this is not what is meant, u can be sad and even cry, what is meant is u don't start wailing, hitting yourself, tearing your clothes etc...