أحسن الله إليكم, my parents do not endorse my following of the sunnah for they think it's 'extreme'. However, I attempt my best to be dutiful and kind; We're invited to a birthday celebration (there's music etc.,) across our house and I refused to come. My parents insisted, what do you advise?

Ustadh AbdulAziz al-Haqqan

Be nice to them but don't do anything that is forbidden.