Assalamu alaikum ustadh. Should a women in thier youth spend time seeking knowledge and getting better or prefer getting married which might distract them from achieving a lot especially as a woman ? Jazakallahu Khairan

Do both, one doesn't hinder the other. You can learn while you are doing chores and u can teach your children. Many of the greatest scholars of Islam became scholars because of the piety and care of their mothers and their mothers were keen on them learning and becoming scholars, like Imam Ibn Baz and the Mufti of Saudi Sh Abdulaziz Al AlSheikh