السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته May Allah bless and preserve you. I have a little fear about the Hadith where the Prophet ﷺ said that bringing an Mubtadi to Medina he will be cursed. When I want go to the Holy Cities I need to take someone with me (Im a Male) but I dont want it. But he still comes

Ustadh AbdulAziz al-Haqqan

You misunderstood the hadeeth may Allah reward you, it is not about just accompanying someone you're not sure about.