Dear ustadh, one is a man (revert) in a household that doesn’t practice Islam, I live only along female folk.Am I a dayooth if I hate in my heart certain things they do but consulting them doesn’t help, could make things worse, but it’s so common that I feel I have to always intentionally show anger

Ustadh AbdulAziz al-Haqqan

No you are not and from what I understood, they are not Muslims, so you should focus on tawheed.